Timothy William Stanton, who penned annual Valentine鈥檚 poems to his wife for nearly a half century,听was named the class poet of the second class to graduate from CU 麻豆影院
By the time Timothy William Stanton graduated from the 麻豆影院 in 1883, he鈥檇 obviously made an impression upon the other six students in his class.听
鈥淭imothy was named the class poet of the second class to graduate from CU 麻豆影院,鈥 says his granddaughter Carolyn Wiseman, 83, of Ann Arbor, Mich., who graduated from CU in 1957 with a degree in home economics.听
Stanton actually attended the inaugural day of classes at CU 麻豆影院, Sept. 5, 1877, as a student in a college-prep program held in Old Main. After graduation, he went on to a stellar career in geology, earning a master鈥檚 degree from CU in 1895 and heading the U.S. Geological Survey from 1930-35. Following his death in 1953,听the journal Science called Stanton 鈥渙ne of the outstanding figures in American geology.鈥澨
But his scientific career didn鈥檛 interfere with his poetic inclinations, and when he proposed to Grace Mabel Patten on Valentine鈥檚 Day, 1898, he did it in verse, delivered with a bouquet of pink roses:
A Valentine to Grace
鈥淏y Puritans and Protestants
鈥淣o Saint鈥檚 day is held dear
鈥淪ave one, that is kept sacred
鈥淏y Lovers far and near.
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鈥淣o creed nor land confines it,
鈥淏ut wherever hearts are true
鈥淭hat day brings to their patron saint
鈥淭he homage that is due.
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鈥淓ach follower lays his offering
鈥淏efore the shrine that he erects
鈥淚n the form of that fair maiden
鈥淲hom his loving heart selects.鈥
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鈥淎nd so, my rhymes I offer,
鈥淢y flowers, all that鈥檚 mine 鈥斕
鈥淢yself, if you鈥檒l accept me,
鈥淭o be your Valentine.鈥
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She accepted, and for every year of their life together, Stanton composed a Valentine鈥檚 Day poem for her.
鈥淚 have never been able to find a sufficient excuse for breaking the habit that was then formed,鈥 he told his daughter Grace Stanton Fansher鈥擟arolyn Wiseman鈥檚 mother鈥攊n 1941 for a self-published memoir and poetry collection,听Eighty Years of Joy and Gladness (Mingled with Some Work and Sadness.
With just a single gap for missing verses (1910), the family managed to save all Stanton鈥檚 Valentine鈥檚 verses to his wife. A few excerpts:
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The Sweetest Kiss
Feb. 14, 1909
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鈥淲hen Grace first let her lips meet mine
鈥淎nd said she鈥檇 be my Valentine
鈥淚 thought that ne鈥檈r again such bliss
鈥淐ould come to one from any kiss.鈥
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After Thirty Years
Feb. 14, 1928
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鈥1898
鈥淎 question, an answer
鈥淎 promise, a kiss
鈥淎 moment of silence
鈥淥f rapture and bliss.
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鈥1928
鈥淭hat day is far distant
鈥淏ut still it seems near
鈥淔or joys e鈥檈r recurring
鈥淗ave shortened each year.鈥
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Home
Feb. 14, 1946
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鈥淗ome might be in the distant Rockies
鈥淥r in California by the Sea.
鈥淗ome might be in Montgomery County
鈥淥r in S Street in the D.C.
鈥淗ome might be in a foreign country
鈥淥r in Heaven where some day it will be
鈥淵es, wherever Grace may be staying,听
鈥淭hat is home for me.鈥
That last was the last of Stanton鈥檚 Valentine鈥檚 love letters to his wife. Grace Stanton died on July 10, 1946.听
鈥淲riting a poem to her every Valentine鈥檚 day, that鈥檚 pretty romantic,鈥 says Wiseman, who with her husband John Wiseman (Pharm鈥57) established the Stanton Endowed Scholarship in geology in 2017 to honor her grandfather.
A few of Stanton鈥檚 non-Valentine鈥檚 verses are also collected in the memoir, including one about his daughter Grace, Wiseman鈥檚 mother, the first two stanzas of which read:
Miss What-For
鈥溾橶hat for?鈥 is the question that Baby Grace asks
鈥溌槎褂霸 everything under the sun,
鈥淎nd e鈥檈n when reminded of nice little tasks
鈥淭he answer must come before they鈥檙e done.
鈥溾楾he birds have no arms, Momma dear, such as mine
鈥溾榃hat for do they differ from me?
鈥溾榃hat for do you kiss me so much at one time?
鈥溾業鈥檒l have to give back two or three.鈥欌
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He was always writing poetry,鈥 says Wiseman, who will celebrate her 64th wedding anniversary in September. 鈥淚鈥檓 sure that鈥檚 why he was the class poet at CU.鈥