Keegan McNamara, a CU 麻豆影院 mathematics student, intends to give a voice to 麻豆影院鈥檚 homeless听
As she watches life walk by on听Pearl Street in 麻豆影院, a听woman shares this story with Keegan McNamara: She is the victim of identity theft, she says, and she lost her home and pension, but she sings in the church choir and tries to give to others who have less than she does.
The woman, who did not share her name publicly, is homeless, and McNamara, a 麻豆影院 student, is interviewing her so he can tell the stories of the 鈥渇orgotten neighbors鈥 among us. His mission, he says, is to help others develop empathy for those who have no house to call home.
She tells McNamara that, in a way, she is lucky: 鈥淣o one really ever stops to sit down and enjoy how beautiful this place is. Sometimes I feel like I鈥檓鈥 the only one who gets the chance to see the smaller details of life that make it wonderful.鈥澨
McNamara interviews homeless people in 麻豆影院 and听听as part of a storytelling project called Forgotten Neighbors, which gained 8,000 followers on their social-media accounts in December.听
McNamara, who is scheduled to graduate with a degree in mathematics this year, is one of two college students who contributes to Forgotten Neighbors, an organization dedicated to 鈥渕aking the homeless heard鈥 via eponymous pages on Facebook and Instagram.听
The other participant, and founder, is Kareem Abukhadra, an economics student at Columbia University. Abukhadra, who grew up in Bahrain, founded Forgotten Neighbors in the spring of 2018. After experiencing the shock of seeing so many homeless people in a city as wealthy as New York City, a single conversation with a homeless person inspired him.听
It started when a man asked him for money, Abukhadra recalls.听鈥淚 said, 鈥業 don鈥檛 have any money,鈥 but we kept听talking for a few moments, and at the end of the conversation, he said, 鈥楾hank you for acknowledging me.鈥欌
Listening to people鈥檚 stories is a humanizing act that can cut through feelings of loneliness, Abukhadra says.
As one homeless man in 麻豆影院 told McNamara,听鈥淚 think I鈥檒l get on my feet at some point, but right now it鈥檚 just me trying to stand up and the world pushing right back down.鈥
Abukhadra wants Forgotten Neighbors to help homeless people maintain their self-esteem, a critical tool for moving forward and up in life.听
McNamara got involved when he saw one of Abukhadra鈥檚 Forgotten Neighbors posts on Facebook in September. He helped develop the听Forgotten Neighbors website鈥攁nd then he headed out to the streets to interview people.
Giving voice to homeless people felt natural for McNamara, who grew up in Louisville, Colorado, and volunteered at the 麻豆影院 Shelter for the Homeless and the Samaritan House in Denver.
鈥淚t always struck me when I was little that the homeless were the same as you and me,鈥 McNamara says. 鈥淭hey have hopes, dreams, fears, stories, advice, families ... all these things that make humans, humans, and make lives interesting. It鈥檚 easier to forget that fact because (the homeless) are so commonly dehumanized.鈥澨
Still, McNamara was nervous about his first interview.听
鈥淚t鈥檚 kind of like talking to someone in middle school you have a crush on,鈥 McNamara says. 鈥淵our palms are sweaty and you鈥檙e hoping it goes well and that you don鈥檛 say something that makes them feel too uncomfortable.鈥澨
After his first interview, McNamara鈥檚 confidence in the project and in his interview skills grew. And with every interview, McNamara鈥檚 deeply rooted belief that homeless people are just regular people was confirmed.听
鈥淚 have heard some absolutely crazy stories about how one or two poor decisions and a lack of a support network prevent people from getting back up on their feet,鈥 McNamara says. 鈥淎side from (these factors), homeless people are literally the same as me.鈥澨
Not once has the CU student felt his project has put him in danger in any regard. He believes that every one of the people he鈥檚 interviewed 鈥渉as been understanding and kind and just a wonderful, regular human being.鈥澨
McNamara meets his interviewees on Pearl Street and University Hill. As he walks, he looks for indicators that people might want to talk. 鈥淚 try to leave people (alone) who are sitting alone. I look for people who are holding out signs.鈥
Before he asks for an interview, he offers a couple of Clif Bars, shakes the person鈥檚 hand, introduces himself and starts a conversation.听
鈥淚 want to make sure it鈥檚 a relationship and totally consensual,鈥 McNamara says. 鈥淪o, I engage with them like they鈥檙e a normal human being, which they are. It feels a bit exploitative to just take the words. I want to make them feel heard 鈥 (to give) them an outlet for things that they鈥檙e feeling.鈥澨
He tries to let his interviews transpire as conversations, even while he types notes into his phone. At the end of the interview, he snaps some photos and reviews the material with the interviewee, making sure they鈥檙e OK with his sharing photos online.
If it鈥檚 a really difficult interview, McNamara will take them out for a meal afterward.
McNamara and Abukhadra try to make a point of staying engaged with the people they鈥檝e interviewed, to be neighborly and so their interviewees can withdraw consent about having their words posted online.听
In the interest of remaining true to their interviewees鈥 words, McNamara and Abukhadra post the interview transcripts and photos to Facebook and Instagram without much filter or editorializing, just edits for length and clarity.听
They hope this honest portrayal of the homeless will increase engagement and public empathy and humanize the homeless in their communities.听
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To join Forgotten Neighbors or to learn more, visit the group's website.
Forgotten Neighbors is not trying to solve the complex issue of homelessness, and Abukhadra says some of their critics have said, 鈥淗ey, what鈥檚 the point? Does it make a difference if you hear their stories?鈥澨
Abukhadra and McNamara believe the answer is yes.听
Almost everyone 鈥渉as thanked me profusely,鈥 McNamara says. Like Abukhadra, a common comment he hears is: 鈥溾楶eople stream by me every day, so getting to talk to someone is refreshing.鈥欌
Increasing public empathy and humanizing the homeless is also crucial to their mission.
Despite 麻豆影院鈥檚 camping bans, McNamara describes hearing stories of public empathy toward the homeless in 麻豆影院, like security guards tasked with kicking the homeless out of stairwells who, on dangerously cold winter days, choose to turn a blind eye to those camping in stairwells.
McNamara says this听is the kind of empathy Forgotten Neighbors wants to cultivate.